Oriental Men -- Asian Men
Oriental Men
The internet reveals a strange thing when it comes to oriental men. Apparently
their demand is negligible when compared to that of oriental women on
interracial dating websites. Where most interracial Asian dating websites
feature Asian girls excessively Asian men seem to be completely missing. Most of
the matchmaking websites are filled with profiles of Asian girls but one hardly
ever sees oriental men.
And this rule seems to apply to nearly every country in Asia. Though there is
a constant complaint among Asian women about the lack of good suitors it also
remains true that these women will not look outside their culture when seeking a
husband.
This makes it even more surprising as to why there are so few websites
featuring oriental men because the demand seems to be quite high. You seem to
run into more Japanese men than most others. Japanese men seem to have more
money and can afford to be seen makes a big difference too.
One possible explanation may be that the modern Asian woman who has become
independent may fear that men from the orient might be a little too old
fashioned to keep up with them.
Asian men have also been badly stereotyped in the west because of how they are
portrayed in popular culture and this may also lead to the problem of a hidden
demand. While it is true that other cultures, particularly African Americans,
have been equally stereotyped through American television that did not stop the
several interracial dating websites from succeeding. Caucasian men and women
both use these websites extensively seeking partners of color.
One plausible explanation might be that whereas the Asians got stereotyped as
weak and sickly the African Americans were portrayed as dangerous and tough,
which might add to their sex appeal. Compared to that tough as nails image the
short and off white colored Asian doing sums with an abacus instead of a
calculator is not quite appealing.
Gay dating is another place where the
Asian Male
gets stereotyped as gay because of their slim and hairless appearance. This is
of course completely untrue and also unjust to most of the Asian male population
but nevertheless it happens.
It may also be that because of long standing traditions oriental men face
pressure from their families when it comes to choosing a partner and they have
to stick to Asian girls. Traditional pressure can be quite inescapable. Perhaps
this is the reason why Asian dating sites feature both genders almost equally
whereas interracial dating websites are lacking in the number of Asian men that
have their profile listed there.
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